I found this article while surfing the web and though it was very interesting so i thought i would copy it to my blog for you guys to read!
Most men feel that they are much more sexual than women. After all, men think about sex every 2 to 5 minutes or so they say. Men also think that they have to talk women into having sex. Most men have been taught to be good boys or gentlemen and to suggest sex to a woman is insulting.
So what is the actual reality of women and sex? It took me ages to realize this, but women are much more sexual than men. In fact, they are much more sexual than most men can ever imagine.
To get an idea of this, read any women's sexual fantasy book. Women's sexual fantasies are much more developed than just about any mans. They can be elaborate and emotional and very descriptive and powerful. They incorporate taboo subjects, such as being dominated or in bondage and can be very slutty.
So why do most of us think that women don't like sex that much. I feel that parents teach their girls that you must be in love and in a committed relationship or married for sex. So their daughter will not go out and have sex and get pregnant. Society also says that a woman who really loves sex is a slut. Men are studs if they have a lot of sex with many women. A woman that has multiple partners is called a slut. This is why that even although a women love sex they will not admit this to someone that they do not know. Women do not want to be treated as objects.
Many women and some men too have had sexual abuse in their past. Some of us have had religious guilt about sex and masturbation. These factors can cripple the enjoyment of sex and intimacy. It takes a lot of healing before sex can be really enjoyed after abuse. I feel all of us have had some negative conditioning about sex. You were born as the result of an orgasm. Why not celebrate that fact! Other societies have celebrated the sex orgasms. Why not western societies?
When you walk down the street, do you hear men and women having orgasms? Not usually. Most of us block our sounds in sex due to our sexual shame. In my private practice as a sexologist, one aspect I suggest is to open up to the natural sounds during sex. If you block the sounds you block the full range of energy in your body.
In fact, I suggest to experiment making huge sounds into a pillow so not to deafen your lover. Men love a responsive woman that makes orgasmic sounds but most not want to do the same. Talking to women, I am surprised about how bad most men are as lovers. What is even more surprising is that most women put up with this!
Most men's orgasms are only a minute or two in length. However, a woman has the potential to have 2 to 3 hour orgasms even without stimulation. I have known several women that have explored the possibility of being orgasmic when working in an office! Most men do not realize this, but they can have orgasms without ejaculation. So I would like to leave you with the thought that women love sex. Women love to be naughty and slutty. Try some dirty talking during your next sexual experience.
Hi there guys I guess thats some food for thought? Now that you know your partner is really a secret sex maniac why not come and check out The Pleasure Zone and pick her up some little sexual treats?
Mr C P DeBond
The Pleasure Zone
Wednesday 28 July 2010
Why I Love Sex Toys As Much As A Man
I can’t go a day without getting out my dildos, vibrators and other sex toys; especially big, thick, long ones. Now don't get me wrong I can’t wait to climb on real cocks, but there are times when I need something larger. I get so horny when my pussy is fully loaded because it sends me into multiple orgasms.
Last week, I was thumbing through The Pleasure Zone Catalogue trying to decide what to get my lover, for our anniversary. When I came to the page with sex toys on it, I saw this large, flesh-colour, realistic looking dildo. The description stated it was fifteen inches long, with a circumference of three. My eyes widened as my heartbeat raced, and my mouth and pussy drooled. It was exactly what I was looking for and I had to have it, so I ordered it. I figured why not, the toy would be a new challenge. Something I could surprise my lover with after all he loves to fuck me with toys.
That afternoon while my man was at work, I lay naked on the bed masturbating. The more I thought about my new toy the more aroused I got. I ran one hand across my throbbing clit as the other caressed and rolled my nipple. I closed my eyes and started purring, as I pictured myself shoving the dildo deep inside my hot wet pussy. OMG I thought my clit would explode from the excitement.
I couldn't wait for it to arrive. I would hurry out to check the mail every day just hoping it would be there. I recall the day it arrived I ran into the bedroom and tore open the box. Wow, I couldn't believe how big it was. Next, I grabbed a large towel to protect the bed, as well as some lube. Following that I stripped spread my legs out wide on the bed, and lubed up my pussy and my new toy. My hands were trembling so much I could hardly hang onto it as I slowly guided it inside my dripping pussy. I just had to see how far in it would go.
At first, the dildo was so big I could only get the head inside of me. I was very annoyed that I couldn’t get more of it in me I tried to push it in further, but to no avail. However, I loved the way it stretched my pussy to the max. It wasn't long until I was cumming like crazy, oh fuck, this is fantastic give me more.
Any way after we had been out for dinner on our anniversary I went straight to the bedroom and grabbed the new addition to my toy collection. I said look what ive got for us to play with baby and a big devilish grin came across his face, I have wanted to fuck you with one of these for ages. He told me to strip, lay back and relax.
I quivered when he poured a large amount of lube directly on my already drenched pussy. As he rubbed the liquid all over I asked do I really need all of that, I'm already pretty wet? He smirked and said you will need it baby because this toy is pretty dam big.
My clit was rock-hard. I moved my hips back and forth and begged him to shove his hand deeper. With no warning, I was suddenly cumming with quick short bursts as the wave surged through me. I barely noticed that with each spasm, the muscles relaxed, and he shoved his hand deeper inside.
As my climax subsided, he continued rubbing against my clit and g-spot. The sensation was overpowering so I closed my eyes and begged him to “let me catch my breath!"
He flashed me a wicked grin and smiling said “No way baby, the fun just beginning!”
Suddenly what pain I felt was mixed with an intense feeling of pleasure. I became euphoric with my mind veering out of control. I bucked my hips wildly and begged for more.
He paused long enough to reach for the dildo. He lubed it up and then placed more of the lubricating liquid inside me. He placed the dildo against my pussy and rubbed it the full length of my sticky slit.
I rolled my eyes, as I was wild with lust now and shrieked, “Fuck me baby fuck me, ram that dildo deep into my hot cunt”
I was so wet and relaxed that the head of the toy slid in easily with no resistance. With one hand, he coaxed my inner thigh muscles to relax as the other kept pressure on the dildo, stretching my inner lips more than they ever had been before.
With the toy buried deep within me, I was cumming over and over again. My body convulsed as the muscles of my pussy clamped tightly around the massive shaft. I was cumming longer and harder, one right after the other.
He withdrew the toy and it made a sucking sound as it popped out of my well-satisfied pussy. He then moved down onto the bed next to me, pulled me close, and kissed my lips softly as he ran his fingers through my hair. I lay there within his arms for a few moments relishing in the joy of feeling totally satisfied. WOW what a rush sex toys rule!!!
Mr C P DeBond
The Pleasure Zone
Last week, I was thumbing through The Pleasure Zone Catalogue trying to decide what to get my lover, for our anniversary. When I came to the page with sex toys on it, I saw this large, flesh-colour, realistic looking dildo. The description stated it was fifteen inches long, with a circumference of three. My eyes widened as my heartbeat raced, and my mouth and pussy drooled. It was exactly what I was looking for and I had to have it, so I ordered it. I figured why not, the toy would be a new challenge. Something I could surprise my lover with after all he loves to fuck me with toys.
That afternoon while my man was at work, I lay naked on the bed masturbating. The more I thought about my new toy the more aroused I got. I ran one hand across my throbbing clit as the other caressed and rolled my nipple. I closed my eyes and started purring, as I pictured myself shoving the dildo deep inside my hot wet pussy. OMG I thought my clit would explode from the excitement.
I couldn't wait for it to arrive. I would hurry out to check the mail every day just hoping it would be there. I recall the day it arrived I ran into the bedroom and tore open the box. Wow, I couldn't believe how big it was. Next, I grabbed a large towel to protect the bed, as well as some lube. Following that I stripped spread my legs out wide on the bed, and lubed up my pussy and my new toy. My hands were trembling so much I could hardly hang onto it as I slowly guided it inside my dripping pussy. I just had to see how far in it would go.
At first, the dildo was so big I could only get the head inside of me. I was very annoyed that I couldn’t get more of it in me I tried to push it in further, but to no avail. However, I loved the way it stretched my pussy to the max. It wasn't long until I was cumming like crazy, oh fuck, this is fantastic give me more.
Any way after we had been out for dinner on our anniversary I went straight to the bedroom and grabbed the new addition to my toy collection. I said look what ive got for us to play with baby and a big devilish grin came across his face, I have wanted to fuck you with one of these for ages. He told me to strip, lay back and relax.
I quivered when he poured a large amount of lube directly on my already drenched pussy. As he rubbed the liquid all over I asked do I really need all of that, I'm already pretty wet? He smirked and said you will need it baby because this toy is pretty dam big.
My clit was rock-hard. I moved my hips back and forth and begged him to shove his hand deeper. With no warning, I was suddenly cumming with quick short bursts as the wave surged through me. I barely noticed that with each spasm, the muscles relaxed, and he shoved his hand deeper inside.
As my climax subsided, he continued rubbing against my clit and g-spot. The sensation was overpowering so I closed my eyes and begged him to “let me catch my breath!"
He flashed me a wicked grin and smiling said “No way baby, the fun just beginning!”
Suddenly what pain I felt was mixed with an intense feeling of pleasure. I became euphoric with my mind veering out of control. I bucked my hips wildly and begged for more.
He paused long enough to reach for the dildo. He lubed it up and then placed more of the lubricating liquid inside me. He placed the dildo against my pussy and rubbed it the full length of my sticky slit.
I rolled my eyes, as I was wild with lust now and shrieked, “Fuck me baby fuck me, ram that dildo deep into my hot cunt”
I was so wet and relaxed that the head of the toy slid in easily with no resistance. With one hand, he coaxed my inner thigh muscles to relax as the other kept pressure on the dildo, stretching my inner lips more than they ever had been before.
With the toy buried deep within me, I was cumming over and over again. My body convulsed as the muscles of my pussy clamped tightly around the massive shaft. I was cumming longer and harder, one right after the other.
He withdrew the toy and it made a sucking sound as it popped out of my well-satisfied pussy. He then moved down onto the bed next to me, pulled me close, and kissed my lips softly as he ran his fingers through my hair. I lay there within his arms for a few moments relishing in the joy of feeling totally satisfied. WOW what a rush sex toys rule!!!
Mr C P DeBond
The Pleasure Zone
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